Part 2 of losing sight....

Im sitting here thinking of what i just wrote, and another GF of mine came to mind. she came by my home today i told me she needed to buy new clothes. I was like why? don't you have enough? She said she had plenty, but she had went out with another GF of ours and some of her friends a couple weeks back. The friends told her she dress like a clown. WOW... I asked what she was wearing for them to say that to her? She told me and it did not seem like anything out of the ordinary. I told her don't go buying clothes to prove something to someone who does not mean a damn thing to you. You are who you are and you should not have to change your clothing for someone to like you or want to hang out with you. They either like you or they don't. your clothes have nothing to do with how nice you are, or how you treat other.. PERIOD..... Sometimes in life we must make compromises, this is not one of those times. Why should i ever think i dress better than someone else? or like wise. It think someone can look nice wearing a $25 outfit or a $225 outfit. It is not the price of the clothes. Is it because they fill they are better than her or know more than her? who knows. Since the economy has went to shit. It seems like a hear this more and more. I don't have a house, a don't drive a fancy car, and cant buy $200 jeans, etc, etc, etc... If you are hanging around people who care solely on these things in life, then you are clearly not friends and you are hanging with the wrong people. Don't get me wrong i love to have nice things and yes i have spent $300 on a pair of sunglasses. But i also have never in my life spend over 29.99 on a pair of jeans, nor will i ever. And i also would never tell anyone that they looked and dressed as a clown unless it was Halloween. And i would never tell anyone they needed new clothing unless they seriously did, and at that point they would probably need money to help buy new ones. Read my last blog.... And don't lose sight of life, who you are, and what is important to you.....